Dead Rel Hunting

August 2025 winter special – get 50% off my Dead Rel Hunting Starter package!

If you’d like me to help you get started with your Ancestry family tree, you can lock in a 50% discount if you pay by 31 August 2025 – but this offer only applies to the first 6 applicants, so don’t leave it too late!

OR – if you’ve already started your Ancestry tree and you’d like help adding more family members, or refining it to improve the Quality Score, you can book me for 6 hours and pay for only 3 if you pay by 31 August 2025.

Read more below about what’s involved, and ask for your discount when you first email me.

Do you want to know more about your family history?

Perhaps you’ve done some research? Or you don’t know where to start? Or you’ve recently found out information that you didn’t previously know and now you want to know more?

Maybe you’ve already started building your family tree, but you don’t have the time, or perhaps the money, or maybe the knowledge, to dig deeper?

Maybe you’ve had your DNA tested, but you don’t know how to use the results to work backwards to find out more about your ancestors? Again – maybe you don’t have the time, or perhaps the technology’s doing your head in (which is understandable 😉 ).

Here’s where I come in … I am an avid family history researcher or, as Arnold Schwarzenegger might say, ‘I am the dead rel hunter’. 😀

And boy would I love to do some dead rel hunting for you!

How I got started and how I can help you

I first became intrigued with my family history when one of Mum’s cousins back in England sent a copy of the tree he’d created. I was about 12 at the time and it fascinated me – I loved the visual representation of my heritage and being able to see the links to the people Mum talked about.

Waring Family Tree 1973

Fast forward several decades (and many iterations in technology!) and I joined Ancestry.com in 2006 to begin my own hunt. A few years later I had my DNA tested and that really helped me begin discovering my roots. I now have over 7,500 people on my family tree, an Ancestry tree rating of 9.2 out of 10, and DNA matches everywhere. I also have a couple of dead ends here and there that I’m still working on, so the challenge never leaves!

I simply love the chase, the hunt, the analysis of the information and the piecing together of the puzzle. I’ve helped others with their trees and would love the chance to work with you.

How does it work?

Reach out to me via the Contact form here and let me know that you’d like help building your family tree and what your main aims are. I’ll get back to you with some detailed instructions, but the simple steps will be:

  • You will need an Ancestry account if you don’t already have one. This can be a free account – you don’t have to have a paid subscription.
  • You will need to have your DNA tested via Ancestry if you haven’t already done so. You will have access to purchase the DNA test kit once you create your Ancestry account. This is a simple ‘spit in a tube’ test which can be mailed back to Ancestry for processing. (Please note that your DNA test is a separate cost paid directly to Ancestry and is not part of the research package I am offering here.)
  • I will send you some instructions on how to create a ‘starter tree’ so that you are the ‘owner’ of the tree rather than me, as tree ownership can’t be transferred.
  • I will also send you some instructions on how to share your DNA results with me (via our Ancestry accounts).
  • I will ask you to provide some basic details about yourself, parent(s) and grandparents so that I start with the most likely ‘true’ facts available.
  • I begin building your tree by adding the facts you provide and then validating those where I can via your DNA matches and whatever documents I can find online.
  • The aim will be to validate the links back to your great-grandparents at least.
  • I will add other people along the way, such as your cousins, aunts, uncles and second cousins, and possibly some great-great grandparents, where DNA matches bring these to light. These wider links will help validate the research, too.
  • I will ask you to be open-minded about the results and accept that we don’t know what we will or won’t discover until I start digging.
  • Once the initial work has been done, the choice is all yours! You can:
    • rescind my access to your DNA results and your tree and take over the research yourself; or
    • rescind my access to your DNA results and your tree and leave your tree as it stands; or
    • leave me with access to your DNA results and your tree and engage me for additional blocks of time (minimum 3 hours per block at my current hourly rate) to keep researching, as and when you like.

Starter package

My Dead Rel Hunting Starter package is $880. (I am not currently registered for GST, so this is ex-GST.) This covers a maximum of 3 hours for admin, onboarding and communication (questions, updates etc), and a minimum of 8 hours for researching.

The main aim will be to build your initial tree with a minimum of 15 people as follows:

  • You as the core person (1 person)
  • Your parents (2 people)
  • Your grandparents (4 people)
  • Your great-grandparents (8 people)

However, as I build I will also be adding cousins, aunts and uncles across the various generations as well, validating these with whatever official documents I can find. These will enable me to link to more of your DNA matches and verify some of the above branches.

The second aim is to maintain an Ancestry minimum tree rating of 9 out of 10, so that you can be confident that the documents and links are as reliable as possible. I can’t guarantee this as I don’t know what information I will or won’t be able to validate until the time comes, but a minimum 9 out of 10 rating will be the aim.

How do you get started and how long does it take?

Once you reach out and we agree to proceed, I’ll send you an invoice. Once it’s paid in full and I have access to your DNA test, I’ll start as soon as possible – usually within a fortnight at the most.

The initial research, depending on whatever else I have on at the time, should be completed within two-four weeks. I may have some questions as we go along – these will be emailed to you to ensure that we both keep track of the same information.

Please note that it’s not worth my while (or your money 😉 ) having me start work prior to your DNA results coming back. So if you haven’t yet ordered and returned your DNA test, you’ll need to allow roughly 8-10 weeks from ordering before I can start work.

What if I can’t trace one of your lines back to your great-grandparents?

If I can’t confidently trace any of the minimum 15 people listed above (excluding yourself, of course!), I will refund you $25* for each one I can’t trace. By ‘can’t confidently trace’, that means I can’t find supporting documents to validate their existence in your lineage, and/or I can’t find a DNA connection to that same ancestor. (* Please note that if you’ve received a discount on your Starter package, then that same percentage discount will apply to any refund.)

Having said that, it is also feasible that I may be able to add some great-great-grandparents in one line or another, depending on your DNA matches and other information available. So a dead end in one line doesn’t mean a ‘stop’ in another line – I will be validating and adding as many connections as I can over the research period. The above 15 family members listed are the minimum I will be aiming for.

As you can see here, I’m still trying to validate one of my own paternal great-grandfathers (Edward James Butler). I strongly suspect that he was left on the doorstep of a church in Ireland and raised by adoptive parents, but that hasn’t stopped me tracking down the rest of my great-gandparents, and many of my great-great grandparents (and further back) in my other lines:

Butler-Waring family tree back to great-grandparents

What if you’ve already started building your tree on Ancestry?

That’s okay – I’m happy to have a look and see what work might be required to take it further.

If your tree is already too large to qualify for the Starter package, then you can book me for a minimum of three hours at a time to work on it.

  • If your tree is a ‘public’ tree on Ancestry, then send me a link to your tree via the Contact form here, let me know what your aims are, and then we can discuss what options might be suitable for you.
  • If your tree is a ‘private’ tree, then let me know that, plus what your aims are, via the Contact form here. I’ll send instructions on how to share your tree with me so that we can then discuss what options might be suitable for you.

Your privacy

I am a sole trader, so I don’t outsource your work to anyone – I do it all myself.

All communications will be between the two of us only, unless you instruct me otherwise.

Any living people added to your tree will be marked as such and so will have their details hidden in Ancestry – only you and I will be able to see them.

If you wish, I can set your entire tree to be ‘Private’ so that other people on Ancestry will be unable to see most details. However, any photos uploaded or documents linked to, may be accessible to other people, depending on how the information is added.

I will send you instructions on how to remove my access to both your tree and your DNA results once you’re happy to move to that next step.

Why Ancestry?

As I’ve worked on Ancestry for nearly two decades, learning another system is not worth it for me now. So with apologies in advance, but if you don’t have an account with Ancestry, there’s not much I can do to help. 🙁

Please also note that I do NOT receive any kickbacks or financial return from using Ancestry or for mentioning them on my website here.

Are you ready to start?

Get the ball rolling via my Contact page here. Let me know that you’re interested in building your family tree on Ancestry and any particular research interest you might have there, and I’ll get back to you generally within two working days, usually sooner.

Please note that all quotes are obligation-free and I don’t pick up the phone to hassle you into signing up. The choice is always yours whether to proceed or not. But in the hope that you do proceed …

I look forward to helping you with your dead rel hunting!